I did everything possible to support the ten people in the family who needed me. When I was very, very I'll none of them lifted a finger to help me. No get well cards, no flowers, nothing! I wrote to mum's GP, same practice as me, said I could no longer support mum, but her GP just ignored that!! One of the doctors even bully me to look after mum over Christmas! If you don't stick up for yourself, no one else will.