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'In Praise of Young Carers – Pearls' is a poem which was kindly submitted to us by Denise McGee-Dewar as part of a series to mark Carers UK's 60th Anniversary in Scotland.

Listen to her poem here or read the full transcript below.

In Praise of Young Carers – Pearls 

(For my daughter, and every child who quietly gives so much) 

 
You made a splash, 
As you came into our lives. 
Your shine so bright, 
Your hugs so tight. 

Your sister’s best friend, 
So many moments to treasure. 
Care and attention were shared; 
Not always in equal measure. 

You had to be hard. 
Immersed in a loving, tempestuous sea. 
Understanding when your sister 
Needed more of me. 

I see you, my pearl— 
Including others, cheering them on, 
All while weathering you own storms. 
Glittering with warmth and compassion, 
You bring joy into every action. 

Even as a tiny girl, 
Dressed in a pink princess gown; 
You fearlessly stood up to those 
Who would tear others down. 

But I also see you, 
In those times when you doubt yourself. 
When your thoughts are so loud 
That you cannot sleep. 
When your lustre fades, 
And you start to feel beat. 

I am here, my precious pearl, 
To remind you how important you are. 
I will polish and restore your shine— 
As you have done for me, 
Time after time. 

 

 

This poem was kindly submitted to us as part of a series of carers' stories to mark Carers UK's 60th Anniversary in Scotland.

You can find the other stories in this series at the links below.

Full Time Caring: A Journey to Mastering Mindfulness

Our Story

Sarah's Story

The Concept of Caring

Identity Crisis - from Career to Carer

Full Time Caring: A Journey in Mastering Mindfulness - Part 2

A Chorus of Carers (poem)

Full time Caring: A Journey to Mastering Mindfulness - Part 3

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