Anyone got suggestions for reuseable incontinence pads for men? (Asking for self).

They need to be quite flat, yet moderately absorbable. I can't abide bulky pads, because my bits are all squashed up in my wheelchair seat, so bulky pads cause even worse pressure points.

I've found some ladies ones, which I would have tolerated (despite the um...rather feminine designs), but they come with wings, which won't work on the jersey trunks I wear (can't do briefs, they cut into my legs).

Shopping never used to be this complex........ :S

P.S Something like this, only washable......And as flat as possible.... ... of-28.html