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Sat May 16, 2020 10:13 pm
I found WFF quite acceptable, not like dinner at the Ritz but very adequate, I was happy to order the meals for myself as a lazy way of keeping myself fed with minimum effort .while staying at my mother's. I've certainly eaten worse and paid more for it .
My mother at the time had just come out of hospital having had a near fatal bout of sepsis and she had no appetite what so ever, she still hasn't to be honest. Getting her to eat is a constant battle.
WFF would have been a really great way of re-establishing her independence. Allowing me to be away "having a life" and just returning every few days to clean and take care of the day to day stuff, do the washing, change the beds etc. All she had to do was heat and eat
Her objection to WFF came as a surprise, I thought they were a pretty good solution to the problem as it appeared to me at the time but every objection under the sun seemed to be found. I don't care for that one, don't like the way they do their potatoes, vegetables are too hard, not much meat in that one.
In the first instance it was a cover to hide the lack of appetite but the next bit may be difficult to believe. I suspect she didn't want to be that independent.
I believe (sincerely) that what she was saying was "don't leave me" If this experiment with WFF had worked she knew I would be gone for 50% of the time and she didn't want that.