This is probably a good time for your daughter to get used to someone else supporting her.

Lots of people miss out on help and benefits because no one has told them what they can get, so here are a few quick questions. Money can't make anyone better but it most certainly can make life easier.

What services does she currently receive from Social Services?
Are you
Claiming Disability Living Allowance for her?
When did Social Services last do a Needs Assessment for her?
When did they last do a Carers Assessment for you?
Have you been told about The Family Fund? They helped me and many of my friends as our disabled children were growing up, sadly the fund's cut off point is the 16yh birthday.
When did you last go on holiday as a family?
Is your house adapted to her needs as a wheelchair user?
Is there a Young Carers Group in your area?