One of the problems with benefits and helplines is the fact that you have to ask the right questions to get the right answers, and let's face it, we all have bad days when we remember something after we put the phone down. As far a benefits are concerned, it might be worth investing in a copy of the disability rights handbook - see the top of the new members page. This is a brilliant publication which explains the benefits rules in very clear english. Then I think you need to get an assessment for your mum, and see if she is entitled to Direct Payments, which, as I understand it, would mean that you would effectively be paid for caring for her - I'm not on these at the moment, but will be shortly if all goes well. Did you ask the CUK helpline if mum would be entitled to extra benefits? Attendance Allowance for example? My husband turned his own hobby into a business, after he was made redundant for the second time. Having restored his own lorry from a total wreck, others admired it and asked him if he could restore theirs. I worked for him, and we had two fantastic holidays in Australia before he died. I like making a few extra pennies by being resourceful, I've bought things down at the tip and sold them, turning £3 into £60 for a nest of Ercol tables, and another £10 into £70 for another Ercol tip purchase. My parents had arguably the largest collection of Ercol anywhere, so I can immediately recognise it. I use my sewing skills, turning £10 of plastic seat fabric into £100+ of gear and clutch gaiters for vintage lorries. Today I've had a free hair cut and blow dry from my regular hairdresser who bought a dress she liked but it was too long, so I took it up for her. I've made hundreds of pounds from husband's rubbish pile, simply by washing things and selling them on once they were clean! My eldest son likes old tractors, he was buying and selling them long before he left school at 16. He likes Land Rovers, he will buy an MoT failure, weld it up, get a new MoT and sell it on when he gets bored with it. When I was in my early twenties, we were even buying steam engines in Australia, shipping them back to the UK, and selling them! In my area, near Bournemouth, gardeners are in short supply, lots of elderly people living locally who have nice homes, plenty of money, but unable to cut their own grass. So much depends , the hobbies you have, and the skills you have, and most important of all as a carer, the time available.