After reading a lot of the posts I am amazed/shocked at how many people feel guilt or selfish or useless. Although I care for both my son and Mum. I have also worked managing care homes for both elderly and children. All I see when I have met carers and read the posts is truly amazing people, not everyone can care for someone, it may even be one of the hardest things that people have to face. It can be thankless, physically and emotionally draining. Anyone that provides care on any level is remarkable. I usually try and look past the never ending hard work and seek rewards by knowing Iam making a difference.
So to everyone who is having a bad day.......just remember the difference you are making and what you do makes you special!!!!!