Hiya
I am new to the forum and looking for some advice or ideas really. I care for my partner who has Becker MD, we have 4 children at home the youngest is 4 yrs old the older 3 are all teens. I am really struggling with motivation at the moment I desperately want a routine but it seems impossible. Either the teens, my partner being stroppy or my own health issues seem to constantly mess anything solid up. I may have fibromyalgia or psoriatic arthritis I am waiting for rheumatology to see me to decide. I work really hard trying to organise and future prof our house only to find myself having to expend the energy again 2 weeks later if I am lucky. I do some volunteer work to get out and I enjoy it but this has recently gotten a bit out of hand as the charitable company has expanded. I keep being told to make time for myself (haha) but constantly feel like I am doing half a job of everything. Sorry to ramble/rant on but chaos is reigning my life it would seem and I would like to wrestle it back.
I am new to the forum and looking for some advice or ideas really. I care for my partner who has Becker MD, we have 4 children at home the youngest is 4 yrs old the older 3 are all teens. I am really struggling with motivation at the moment I desperately want a routine but it seems impossible. Either the teens, my partner being stroppy or my own health issues seem to constantly mess anything solid up. I may have fibromyalgia or psoriatic arthritis I am waiting for rheumatology to see me to decide. I work really hard trying to organise and future prof our house only to find myself having to expend the energy again 2 weeks later if I am lucky. I do some volunteer work to get out and I enjoy it but this has recently gotten a bit out of hand as the charitable company has expanded. I keep being told to make time for myself (haha) but constantly feel like I am doing half a job of everything. Sorry to ramble/rant on but chaos is reigning my life it would seem and I would like to wrestle it back.