Hi
everyone. My name is bex im 37. I’m new to this forum. I’m a long term carer for my 14 year old son ( autism and severe anxiety) and to my husband who has arthritis and is in the process of having both hips replaced amongst other health issues like seeing specialists for possible MS. I’m really starting to feel the pressure of long term care and saw this forum advertised. I’m pretty isolated and have lost friends because they think I am stuck in my life, I suppose I am but not through choice. I care because I love them but it’s really getting to me now. Sorry it’s a bit doom and gloom but I’m hoping to chat to others in similar situations.
Hello and welcome.
it can be a lonely road being a carer. It is really important to find some time for yourself. I care for my Mum and until recently my Dad I also have small children.
Can your son and partner be left so you could go out and get some time to yourself? Have you had a carer's assement?