Hi Peter and Anne...just wanted to offer a warm welcome from me too! Looks like others have given you lots to think about! Please have a look around the forum and join in where and when you want....enjoy!

One thing that I will say, please never feel guilty if you decide to "take a small step back" and allow others to share the load. When I was caring I know it took me a while to realise that I didn't have to do everything myself and it was ok to let go a little, just to take a breath!

Bell x