Hello Peter & welcome
Can you tell us more about what you find the most difficult.
Has you partner had a needs assessment and you a carers assessment.
https://www.carersuk.org/help-and-advic ... assessment
https://www.carersuk.org/help-and-advic ... assessment
Have you joined a local carers group. These groups you might find like minded people and advisers. Who can help in other ways.
https://www.carersuk.org/help-and-advic ... al-support