where to start
my partner of 20 years, suffers from multiple problems, depression, chronic cluster headaches, botched surgery that has led to bladder issues. problems with lower discs which again causes bladder issues, gall stones, kidney problems,
those are the highlights.
She also lost her lifetime awarded disability claim when it changed to PIP and despite numerous attempts we cant get them to see how bad the chronic cluster headaches affect her life. ( these will take 45-60 mins to happen then knock her out for 4-6 hours, it is not uncommon for her to have another straight after. please google before commenting on the CCH)
At the moment she can not move without being in pain, just getting from bed to toilet is enough to make her cry.
the list of medication she is on is long and the pain management is not working.
She has so many things that need sorting that it is hard to know which to talk to the doctors about.
Unless we get one doctor at her surgery it is a waste of time..
At the moment we are sure she has a bladder infection, skin problems and other minor health issues.
we are also waiting to hear from hospital about kidney stone and lower discs
She is not taking care of herself in anyway or form, i have to check if she has eaten, taking tablets plus other stuff
I have just returned to work after being off with depression, but i can feel myself slowly being pulled back to the dark place.
Tonight i sit in front of my computer wondering how i am going to muster the will power to carry on.
I know i need help and am getting support from my family.
but we need real help. someone other than me to be there for her.
I feel the solution to get her problems looked into and get her on the road to recovery is to dump her at hospital entrance with a notice around her neck "do not return unless fixed"
thanks for listening
my partner of 20 years, suffers from multiple problems, depression, chronic cluster headaches, botched surgery that has led to bladder issues. problems with lower discs which again causes bladder issues, gall stones, kidney problems,
those are the highlights.
She also lost her lifetime awarded disability claim when it changed to PIP and despite numerous attempts we cant get them to see how bad the chronic cluster headaches affect her life. ( these will take 45-60 mins to happen then knock her out for 4-6 hours, it is not uncommon for her to have another straight after. please google before commenting on the CCH)
At the moment she can not move without being in pain, just getting from bed to toilet is enough to make her cry.
the list of medication she is on is long and the pain management is not working.
She has so many things that need sorting that it is hard to know which to talk to the doctors about.
Unless we get one doctor at her surgery it is a waste of time..
At the moment we are sure she has a bladder infection, skin problems and other minor health issues.
we are also waiting to hear from hospital about kidney stone and lower discs
She is not taking care of herself in anyway or form, i have to check if she has eaten, taking tablets plus other stuff
I have just returned to work after being off with depression, but i can feel myself slowly being pulled back to the dark place.
Tonight i sit in front of my computer wondering how i am going to muster the will power to carry on.
I know i need help and am getting support from my family.
but we need real help. someone other than me to be there for her.
I feel the solution to get her problems looked into and get her on the road to recovery is to dump her at hospital entrance with a notice around her neck "do not return unless fixed"
thanks for listening