Hi Anne and welcome,
there are other who are / have been in the same situation as you, hopefully they will be along shortly.
You might like to post on Roll Call - this is like a chat over the garden fence - not as busy as it used to be, so new contributors are very welcome https://www.carersuk.org/forum/social-a ... call-44233
You might also like the Cuppa for Carers, https://www.carersuk.org/help-and-advic ... ne-meetups
Melly1