First of all Tony so sorry your message went unanswered,must have slipped through the net so to speak.I have no intention of seeing a counseller I am not that sort of person
You do not have to be a sort of person to see a counsellor.I know several members here have visited one and benefitted from it.Always down to the individual of course.
Have you tried your GP,they can possibly help too.
The samaritans can be a good help too.Many people think they are only there for emergencies but that is not the case.Can help talking things over.If you would like more information please say so.
One little thing to remember Tony is that the forum is open to anyone reading so you may want to think over just how much personal information you wish to share.If at any time you post something and regret it, you do have the option of editting it at a later time.
Take care
Rosemary
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