hi am new hear but ive been reading some of the other post and my problem doesnt seem half as bad as other people on here. i have a finance who has had two accident in the space of a year. He first hurt his back at work which made him have his spine have chip out of and it took us over a year with fighting with mhs get x rays mri scan etc done to find this out. he did seem to be getting better by the time i give birth to our son over 3 year go. then we all went out in the car park it in the local shopping centre car park and some silly person drove straight into the drives door. which made his back kick off again and now he got arthris in his knee. since then it seem to have been getting worse and it take nearly over 3 years to get any help what so every. his knee is getting worse he cant manage get up the stair with out crawling up there, he cant get in and out the bath with out his leg giving way. i have to help him get up out of the chair. and it like no one wants to help or believe what we are saying. it really had on me as i have to look after our son who is 3 now and juggle the housework school run and make sure my finance is ok before i can do anything else. i no there big age gap of 21 years between us but i love him and i hate seen him in pain. just need to talk to someone else who in the same or similar situation as me as starting to feel like am doing all this on my own.
