Hello

[Tiasmum]

Hello everyone.
I have been a carer for my hubs for the past ten years.

[Chris From The Gulag]

Hi Tiasmum ... welcome to the forum.

Extremely quiet as I type ... and not just due to the weather.

How can we be of assistance ?

You name it , we'll try our best to answer it.

The forum is yours.

Others will be along to extend their welcomes.

[Tiasmum]

Hello Chris.
Thank you for your lovely welcome.
A friend suggested that I join, I'm not sure that I need anything at the minute.
My hubs has an appointment for a CT scan on the 10th, I just may need scraping up after that!

[Chris From The Gulag]

Your welcome.

Mmmm ... like buying a book and not peaking inside ?

Plenty of chapters on finances and caring support ... or lack thereof being more apt.

Social area can be a comfort ... or not ... depending on one's interests ( A cat lover perhaps ? ) and financial resources
... what some do , others can only dream of.

Yours to explore ... even if you were a Greenham Common veteran ... there's plenty around to get your teeth into.

A blank canvas ... yours to paint ?

[Melly1]

Hi Tiasmum,
welcome to the forum, if you aren't after advice etc then why not have a look at the Members section and fun and games sections.

You might also be able to offer some advice to folk posting in the All about caring section and Tips and Practical section.


If you feel like sharing, why does your hubby need care?


Melly1

[Stephanie_1502]

Welcome Tiasmum

As Melly said, we are not just about giving advice - we understand that caring can sometimes get a bit lonely, and I find the site great for a bit of companionship and support too.

Any problems finding your way around, just ask.

[Tiasmum]

My hubs s has had Rheumatoid arthritis for over 30 years, he is now 76. His mobility is very limited. He had a stroke approximately 3 years ago and now has limited vision.
Since January he has had a low blood count, iron tablets . They kept his blood from dropping further. Since stopping , his bloods have fallen. He has lost loads of weight, his appetite is almost non existent. He has fortisips and small shot type drinks. His GP is really concerned, hence the scan.
I hope that this is ok to post?
Oh and yes, I love cats. We can't have another one because hubs may tread on it.

[bowlingbun]

Welcome to the forum,

I'm sure you are really worried about your husband and the results of the scan. Nothing you can do will change the results, whatever they are, all you can do is be there to support your husband as best you can on this journey.

Are you getting any help from Social Services?

[Sally_17031]

Hello

Welcome to the forum! Best of luck with husband's CT scan. Are you able to get any time for you? Really important to take care of yourself if you can.

[Lizzie Carers UK]

Hi Tiasmum

Welcome to the forum. The members are really supportive and welcoming here. I hope you find the support you need.