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Mon Dec 31, 2012 10:13 pm
Sorry, my experience as a carer relates to elderly and those with learning difficulties, but I've had more experience of illness and hospitals that I'd like! I'd suggest that you plan for the admission, so that you can make sure that everything is organised and packed with the minimum of fuss. Don't forget tissues, wet wipes, and individual drinks cartons or bottles and plenty to read, if that's appropriate. I buy paperbacks in the charity shops before an admission, then give them back once they've been read. The lead up to admission is inevitably going to be very stressful, and you will be concerned about discharge too. Usually I suggest to the girls in your position that they have a facial, massage, or hair do as some "me" time when their caree is in hospital, to help unwind. Not sure what you blokes do in the same situation, perhaps a meal down the pub to save cooking? Our local garden centres do great food, but whatever you do, look after yourself properly while you are on your own. I don't know if there is a support group specially for the problems your partner will be going through, might be worth trawling the internet. Hope that helps.