Wow thanks for all the answers
going to reply individually 
sturdygirl - Hi
Yes my partners had all different kinds of therapy and treatment since he was around 12 years old and is on medication, which has recently been changed. He does have a support worker but to be honest they dont listen to a word i say. Ive asked them for some help as im not coping with things and they have let me down.
susieq - Hello
thank you for helping get more responses 
crocus - Hi
he wants to move where all his family are as he says its this bad area we live in that makes him worse and he thinks things will be better there, im not so sure as we lived there before and he got worse. he said the fact that he would be willing to go without me should show how bad it is and how desperate he is.
brindleboy123 - Hi
no i havent had a carers assesment, i have heard of them but im dont know what they are and how you have one. I really dont want to move away but if thats the only way to keep our relationship going its what i have to do
he keeps saying i shouldnt go unless i want to but i cant just throw away everything. yes its little things that make life harder at the moment.
poppett - Hello and thank you
i really hope to make some friends as like i say my family and friends dont really understand so i have no one to talk to really.
Matty Groves - Hi
thanks i will definately take the advice and look into an assesment. the answers have already helped so much, it means the world to have someone to talk to and not feel so alone 
india77 - Hi
im seeing my midwife monday and im wondering wether to talk to her but she is pretty useless at the best of times lol. im just afraid that if i tell people im not coping they might think im a bad mum which i know is silly but these thoughts go through my head. yes its lovely to let of a bit of steam on here, its amazing how writing it out can help so much, its like a weights been lifted 
bowlingbun - Hello
yes i understand what you mean, we have delayed moving until afer the baby is born, i told him i just can do it and i want to have the baby with my family around and not be in a strange place. He always says he feels so guilty that he cant help and make things easier for me. I do know what you mean as i even get so angry at him and feel like he just cant be bothered but i just have to remind myself that its the illness not him. In a way, and i know it sounds awful, but i am dreading when the baby is here, i dont know how im going to manage with everything if im not doing well now
il be exhausted. and until ive recovered i cant take my older son to school which means i will have to have him at home too. i think its a hard road ahead 
sillybugger - Hi
thanks sometimes i really dont feel im doing a good job, especially when hes getting worse rather than better. I struggle to have the final say as im very quiet and a bit soft really, also he can get very grumpy which just adds to things. I have tried to contact our local CAB in the past but they dont do appointments you have to go in and usually they are full. The services in my area arnt the best
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Thank you so much everyone for your replys i really appreciate it
and look forward to hearing from you all soon x


sturdygirl - Hi

susieq - Hello


crocus - Hi

brindleboy123 - Hi


poppett - Hello and thank you

Matty Groves - Hi


india77 - Hi


bowlingbun - Hello



sillybugger - Hi


Thank you so much everyone for your replys i really appreciate it
