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Tue Aug 14, 2018 5:30 pm
FAO Chris and all others who care enough to make the State listen and change our lives for the better.
I am fully prepared to provide my contact numbers ,so together we can create an Army of Activists for real change.
I am 70 years of age this year and first became a Carer in 1977 following the meltdown of my wife then.
Her whole persona changed along with challenging behaviour patterns.
Six years later had had enough, got divorced and married the children’s Nanny in 1988.
She truly was a dear, but during her pregnancy and the expected birth of our son ,suffered heart failure and a collapse to some organs, I was forced to give up my career and take care of her 24/7 ,along with the three children too.
She hung on for five years, dying in my arms in 28/08/94 aged just 29.
I met my current wife at the local Cemetery and whom provided great love and support to all of us.
In 2010 I suffered a Stroke, MS, Bells Palsy, Shingles and Diabetes. We received no help at all.
Once recovered enough carried on running the family business.Things were going well again and with no help from the State eitger . In April 2015 my wife suffered a Stroke too leaving her with lots of issues including Acute Anxiety Disorder. She requires monitoring 24/7 , cannot cook ,clean or be left alone.
So our family business got BINNED again and three years later I am her rock.
The State offers no help and even have to employ a Housekeeper to do the housework and things.
In 2016 I had my Mobility Car taken away but after months of appealling got my allowamce back.
So not looking for Pity ,but just to accept why I am doing this.
Please go to www.nuc.org.uk and join because if we don’t stop this disgusting injustice, we and those that follow will remain Cannon Fodder.
There now ,you know almost as much about me as I do.
Terry Bayliffe
I am fully prepared to provide my contact numbers ,so together we can create an Army of Activists for real change.
I am 70 years of age this year and first became a Carer in 1977 following the meltdown of my wife then.
Her whole persona changed along with challenging behaviour patterns.
Six years later had had enough, got divorced and married the children’s Nanny in 1988.
She truly was a dear, but during her pregnancy and the expected birth of our son ,suffered heart failure and a collapse to some organs, I was forced to give up my career and take care of her 24/7 ,along with the three children too.
She hung on for five years, dying in my arms in 28/08/94 aged just 29.
I met my current wife at the local Cemetery and whom provided great love and support to all of us.
In 2010 I suffered a Stroke, MS, Bells Palsy, Shingles and Diabetes. We received no help at all.
Once recovered enough carried on running the family business.Things were going well again and with no help from the State eitger . In April 2015 my wife suffered a Stroke too leaving her with lots of issues including Acute Anxiety Disorder. She requires monitoring 24/7 , cannot cook ,clean or be left alone.
So our family business got BINNED again and three years later I am her rock.
The State offers no help and even have to employ a Housekeeper to do the housework and things.
In 2016 I had my Mobility Car taken away but after months of appealling got my allowamce back.
So not looking for Pity ,but just to accept why I am doing this.
Please go to www.nuc.org.uk and join because if we don’t stop this disgusting injustice, we and those that follow will remain Cannon Fodder.
There now ,you know almost as much about me as I do.
Terry Bayliffe
