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Mon Nov 18, 2019 11:54 pm
I am looking after my caree suffering from physical and mental illness, last year they got to the point of not being able to cope anymore and took an overdose.
I went down to A&E sat with them eventually they saw the crisis team who listened for about 10 minutes then handed my caree some leaflets about councelling and said they could go home. No treatment or follow up appointment was ever arranged.
I have talked to mental health services who say that unpaid carer support is only available to carers of services users of the mental health trust.
So if my caree was attending treatment or was sectioned by mental health services I would be entitled to help.
So who should be providing help and support as that's what my caree needs, long term health problems, depressed anxious, stuck at home. My caree has had a needs assessment and basically been refused all help, my caree can wash and dress themselves and that is the criteria. Social Services have raised the bar so high so that only the very severely disabled get help.
So who should be providing the help? my caree needs social services, help going out and about, help with transport, help seeing friends, socialising, all of which the Care Act mention.
But the mental health problems are causing the needs, scared to go out on their own, has panic attacks.
I have recently learned my caree has personality disorder, diagnosed years ago but little treatment given.
The councelling place has said, we don't deal with personality disorder, your caree needs to see Mental health services, but my caree has done, no help supplied.
What are my carees rights in this situation, needs but being refused personality disorder treatment, being misdirected to sources of support.
And what are my rights as an unpaid carer looking after my caree with multiple health issues and personality disorder.
As stated Mental health services refuse any kind of support to me, but I am looking after someone who is mentally ill.
Social services have refused both of us any kind of help and support, but this is a vulnerable person living in the community with no support.
Can Social Services force Mental health services to give treatment and support to my caree, there is a wellbeing duty through the Care Act and Mental Health Services surely as well have dutys to keep people mentally well?
The only option seems to be paying for private therapy which does not seem viable, is there any way of getting a grant to pay for private therapy?
What are the rights of someone with personality disorder to get treatment which in turn will give the carer support, is there personality disorder guidance that Mental health services must follow?