I WILL TRY AND CIT A LONG STORY SHORT I HAVE LOOKED AFTER !MY MUM FOR 30 YEARS SHE LIVED WITH US FOR 10 SHE IS 85 HAS ADVANCED PART PART ALTZIMERS AND DEMENTIA OSTEOARTHRITIS ALL OVER SHE IS COMPLETELY RELIANT ON ME AND MY HUSBAND BUT I HAVE HAD A BAD ILLNESS AND STROKE CARERS COME IN TO WASH AND DRESS HER BUT WE ALSO HAVE A SPECIAL NEEDS SON WHO DEMANDS ALOT OF ATTENTION AND WE ARE STRETCHED TO OUR LIMIT WITH NO OTHER FAMILY HELP AND NOW SHE IS UP ALL NIGHT
MUM WENT INTO RESPITE LAST WEEK I HAVE BEEN TOLD TO STAY AWAY AND LET HER ADJUST AS I AM HER TRIGGER TO BE UPSET AND WANT TO COME HOME
IT HAS BEEN DECIDED THAT HER RESPITE SHOULD BE MADE RESIDENTIAL ON TUES I HAVE A MEETING WITH SOCIAL SERVICES AT THE HOME WERE MY MUM IS TO BASICALLY ( THESE ARE THE SOCIAL WORKERS WORDS ) INFORM HER THAT SHE CAN NO LONGER LIVE WITH US AND HAS TO NOW STAY IN A HOME
IM DREADING THIS I DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH IT I M GETTING ILL WITH WORRY MY ONLY SUPPORT IS MY ROCK OF A HUSBAND. BUT THIS IS SOMETHING I HAVE TO DO AND IT WILL UPSET HER SO MICH HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU LOVE THAT YOU CANT LOOK AFTER THEM ANYMORE AND THEY CANT LIVE WITH YOU ??
IM LOST AND JUST DONT KNOW HOW IM GOING TO DO IT
I KNOW IM NOT THE FIRST IN THIS SITUATION AND SADLY WONT BE THE LAST ANYONE WITH EXPERIENCE OR ADVICE I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT
MANY THANKS FOR YOUR TIME
MUM WENT INTO RESPITE LAST WEEK I HAVE BEEN TOLD TO STAY AWAY AND LET HER ADJUST AS I AM HER TRIGGER TO BE UPSET AND WANT TO COME HOME
IT HAS BEEN DECIDED THAT HER RESPITE SHOULD BE MADE RESIDENTIAL ON TUES I HAVE A MEETING WITH SOCIAL SERVICES AT THE HOME WERE MY MUM IS TO BASICALLY ( THESE ARE THE SOCIAL WORKERS WORDS ) INFORM HER THAT SHE CAN NO LONGER LIVE WITH US AND HAS TO NOW STAY IN A HOME
IM DREADING THIS I DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH IT I M GETTING ILL WITH WORRY MY ONLY SUPPORT IS MY ROCK OF A HUSBAND. BUT THIS IS SOMETHING I HAVE TO DO AND IT WILL UPSET HER SO MICH HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU LOVE THAT YOU CANT LOOK AFTER THEM ANYMORE AND THEY CANT LIVE WITH YOU ??
IM LOST AND JUST DONT KNOW HOW IM GOING TO DO IT
I KNOW IM NOT THE FIRST IN THIS SITUATION AND SADLY WONT BE THE LAST ANYONE WITH EXPERIENCE OR ADVICE I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT
MANY THANKS FOR YOUR TIME