Honey Badger wrote:
Thu May 10, 2018 7:04 am
Blossom24 wrote:
Wed May 09, 2018 10:25 pm
So, what thoughts do you have? Where would you like to go? What would you like to do?
I'd say it is an open question because there is a world of difference between I'm actually able/wanting to do now to what my needs/wants are going to be 20+ years down the line and theres no certainty to when that time might come.

In the same breath I've been doing this most of my life, I don't recall a time without it.. I was lucky enough to be able to actually do some things for myself but other areas (social/relationships) just fell apart as the intensity of the caring role increased so "normality" is an adventure in itself I know I will have a difficult time with, I'm under no illusions about it either.

Young me wants to go back to work, find somebody to plan the rest of our lives with, maybe start a family which is generally picking up where I left off while old me is just going to want a quiet life :) At least with the former I have the nappy skills down
like :D