I asked the care home to send me dads life story book to use at his funeral. Sent the payment for postage and they had 2 weeks to post it. Got a letter on the day of the funeral saying they wanted £14 for hairdressing. My sister drove there the day after and they said she couldn't have the photos until paid the £14. She left upset and empty handed. My mum rang the Director and he said he was annoyed his bank holiday weekend had been disturbed! Cannot believe their terrible treatment of us. Rang the police but they said it was a civil matter. Going to contact senior NHS about this on Tuesday