Hi,I’ve been a Carer for 15 years. My Dad died in 2010,so since then the sole focus of my entire life has been my Mum. She died one month ago. The time afterwards was telling people and organising the funeral. I spoke to lots of people. Now the funeral has happened,there is silence. No phone calls or anything. I feel completely alone. My sister contacts me regularly and I’ve been to her house several times. But other than that,nothing. I feel empty and I can’t think straight. I know this is probably natural,but I’d like to come on the forum and make contact with others who’ve been in the same situation. Just to see if there are any practical measures to take, or is it just a matter of time? I feel guilty that I can now do ‘normal’ things like go out when I want. It’s not good.
Peter.
Peter.