Hubby and myself held hands when out. When I see other ' older' couples doing so I get a pang. Not that I resent them, just wish I was still part of that group. He would have hated lockdown, and if he was still in the nursing home, I would be a wreck by now, at not being able to oversee his care.
I suppose if we stopped missing them it would be odd?
It really annoys me, because the requests you make for M are so doable, and should be completed as a matter of course.