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Very worried! - Carers UK Forum

Very worried!

All about money
Hi All,
I’m new here and can’t sleep through worry.
My partner has received an “interview under caution” regarding supposedly not informing of a “change in circumstances”
It’s a bit long winded, so please bare with me. He became our daughters carer when he was struggling to work after bypass surgery. He just couldn’t fight the medication side effects. So, I was working part time and continued to do so.
We are/were in receipt of housing benefit. My salary increased slightly toward the end of the 2016/17 tax year, and I honestly can’t remember if I sent any payslips off. But everything was declared to the tax credit office.
Then the following year I got a promotion, back dated. When everything was sorted out, I finally got back pay in the Feb and my new salary in the March. We had some problems at home, due to a malicious call about our daughters weight ( not gaining weight is part of her condition) so we had social services involvement at that time. Due to the anger and upset it all caused me, I made sure I sent off 3 payslips showing my previous, backdated, and new pay. Stupidly I posted them. ( pride stopped me from scanning at work because I didn’t want anyone to see - could kick myself now!) I made sure because I can’t handle the stress of anything extra than our daily life. It’s hard enough as it is. But at the time, I remember that our following months HB was reduced ( and I’ve checked it to make sure) I thought no more of it. We carried on with the social services stuff, it went on for months, but the case was finally closed. I was exhausted from keeping all the balls in the air. I’m out of the house 50 hours a week for a 32 hour job. My Nan was going downhill fast with dementia, my mum wasn’t coping. And to top it off, I was ( and still am) attending night school so that we can eventually be off of benefits entirely. I hate it.
So, this year in June, the housing asked for evidence of income. I got quite muddled about dates and when I thought I’d had a pay rise ( actually thought it was earlier than it really was) but they said they’d had no info since 2016! I know this not to be the case because I sent it - and the reason why I made sure won’t leave me because it was a distressing time.
So I gave them all they asked for. Had to pay for P60’s I couldn’t find. But they didn’t tally with my monthly salary. So they hit us with a massive overpayment which I wanted to be looked at again with my bank statements showing my actual payments. Before I could do anymore, they then decided that our (just) 18 yr old must be at work and then said we were entitled to nothing, and sent a payment plan of £500 per month for the next 10 months! I would have laughed if I didn’t want to cry.
I sent the evidence to prove he was in education, along with evidence of child benefit.
I was planning to go into the benefits office this week with bank statements showing my actual salary for the times they have me earning almost £200 per month more than I was - when this letter for the interview has dropped through the door.
I am worried sick. We have done everything they asked, and I know they should have info from a year ago. And just to add, if I do a benefits calculator of my pay and our total income, it still shows us with an £88 per week benefit award.
I am so confused. How could they say I intentionally held back info when not only did I send in my payslips, but everything is held by HMRC, and our money went down the following month ?
I am absolutely terrified, because I only have my word against theirs that I sent anything in.
But more so for my partner. He’s the one being called in and I’m the one who deals with the paperwork. Because of my ineptitude and pride - I should have emailed them - he is in this position.
I haven’t been able to eat all weekend, I feel sick.
This was supposed to be a well earned week off with our youngest and all I want to do is cry.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I simply can’t cope with this kind of thing.
Hi Victoria,
I'm not surprised you are feeling anxious, the DWP have been swooping on lots of carers in this way.

I strongly advise you get in touch with the helpline:

Carers UK provides information, support and advice to carers. The information and advice we provide covers a range of subjects relating to caring including:

• Benefits and tax credits
• Carers employment rights
• Carers assessments and how to get support
• Services available to carers
• How to complain effectively and challenge decisions

You can email us at adviceline@carersuk.org and we will respond to your enquiries within 10 working days, although it can often be sooner.

Our telephone helpline providing information is open on Mondays and Tuesdays between 10am and 4pm - 0808 808 7777
If they don't reply in a timely enough way, then contact the Citizen's Advice Bureau.

Write it all out and code the evidence e.g. P60 says X, bank statements state Y, HB was reduced on such and such a date, I sent off information when so and so happened - date etc.

Melly1
Hi Victoria.

Suffice to say , you are not alone ... over 80,000 family carers have been flagged in the past year by the DWP :

https://www.carersuk.org/forum/support- ... wp%20purge

Strongly recommend either the CAB or the Carers UK Advice Team ( Best by email ) ... contact details for both follow :

https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/

https://www.carersuk.org/forum/support- ... line-24147

Let us know how you get on ... it may help others in a similar situation.
Thank you for the info. I will get in touch with CAB and get carers advice. They haven’t suspended any benefit as the have paid the lower amount today. That’s even more confusing!
Is it worth me phoning the housing benefit office to see if I can talk to them? I have the time this week to go in and one set of advice ( I’ve been googling it) says to try and resolve it with the benefits office - but be careful what you say. I’m not worried about that because I can show them what I have. Apart from any evidence of sending the 3 payslips. I will kick myself forever over that!
Thanks again.
I would seek advice first as the HB question is contingent on other factors.
Thanks for that. I was so tempted today to contact them. I can’t stop feeling sick. But I have been in touch with CAB and will be going to their drop in tomorrow. They have provided me a list of solicitors who I will call tomorrow after I’ve gotten advice.
Suffice to say I will be looking for an additional job to top up our income so we can be done with these type of benefits once and for all.
I can’t cope with them handling things so poorly, I’d rather be out of it and run myself into the ground for a couple of years and get them paid back quicker.
I just hope this doesn’t all fall apart and they accept that I did what I say I did. The thought of either of us being prosecuted for fraud is just terrifying.
Victoria_19101 wrote:
Mon Oct 21, 2019 5:20 pm
Thanks for that. I was so tempted today to contact them. I can’t stop feeling sick. But I have been in touch with CAB and will be going to their drop in tomorrow. They have provided me a list of solicitors who I will call tomorrow after I’ve gotten advice.
Suffice to say I will be looking for an additional job to top up our income so we can be done with these type of benefits once and for all.
I can’t cope with them handling things so poorly, I’d rather be out of it and run myself into the ground for a couple of years and get them paid back quicker.
I just hope this doesn’t all fall apart and they accept that I did what I say I did. The thought of either of us being prosecuted for fraud is just terrifying.
I hope this information helps https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/benef ... fit-fraud/

Make additional photocopies of evidence. Send via secure recorded delivery. If possible send a old letter from a specialist detailing his condition.
Thank you.
I’m not sure I can get any copies of anything that I know I sent if they say they didn’t get them?
I saw someone at CAB today, and I came away with a solicitors list. It was a bit awful for a minute because the lady who came bathing in said “we can’t help you with that because it’s a criminal matter and you need a solicitor” That certainly didn’t do me any favours! I just about held it together:
She did warm a little when she saw what I was talking about and commented that it’s unusual to go to DWP once the housing have sorted it. In one way that makes me feel better because I know there’s nothing untoward going on with us.
If it’s the stuff from 18 months ago, I can’t prove I sent in the info back then - only that I did everything asked in June this year.
I have contacted a solicitor and am awaiting them to call back. They will be attending with him on the day.
This has given me such a kick up the backside and made me look at how I can make our lives work a little better for us all. How to be more organised and stay on top of the important stuff. I feel like an absolute idiot right now!
I feel like an absolute idiot right now!


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There again , it is the DWP ... ?
Hi Victoria, really sorry to hear of the situation that you're in and how much worry it has caused. If you need to run through anything or have any questions, do get in touch with our advice team who can be contacted via email / phone.
advice@carersuk.org
0808 808 7777 (Mon - Tues, 10am to 4pm)