Hi all,
My mother died in August in a care home, she’d been there 5 years following a brain injury. She had detiorated massively in last two years , doubly incontinent, bed bound, no communication, totally reliant on Carers for everything. She was hospitalised Feb 20 and when she was discharged in March we were told she had weeks to live. She was so frail ( 5 stone - her normal weight was about 12 stone , very tall lady). Asked about nursing care and CHC bit was told there was no point as she was at end of life and woild survive a few weeks. She survived 6 months in a care home and died alone in lockdown. On the day she died the GP refused to come out to provide palliative drugs ( as he didn’t have them he said , they admit this was an error and they have apologised) he also said she should have been in a nursing home .
I am so incensed, I’ve just received a £35,000 bill for her care, her small terraced cottage will have to be sold, she had left it to her precious grandchildren. I’ve looked into CHC - I need to read up on it and was wondering if anyone had any good resources to read as there is so much on line.
I’ve been told that if the care home could manage her she wouldn’t get CHC but they are bound to say that aren’t they. They certainly didn’t manage the palliative drugs as she died a horrible death, I don’t know what else went on as we were in lockdown for the last 6 months of her life.
I’m seriously unwell myself, a hysterectomy went wrong, I have 3 stoma bags. I want to make sure though my mother gets What she was entitled to, if of course that is possible.
Thank you
My mother died in August in a care home, she’d been there 5 years following a brain injury. She had detiorated massively in last two years , doubly incontinent, bed bound, no communication, totally reliant on Carers for everything. She was hospitalised Feb 20 and when she was discharged in March we were told she had weeks to live. She was so frail ( 5 stone - her normal weight was about 12 stone , very tall lady). Asked about nursing care and CHC bit was told there was no point as she was at end of life and woild survive a few weeks. She survived 6 months in a care home and died alone in lockdown. On the day she died the GP refused to come out to provide palliative drugs ( as he didn’t have them he said , they admit this was an error and they have apologised) he also said she should have been in a nursing home .
I am so incensed, I’ve just received a £35,000 bill for her care, her small terraced cottage will have to be sold, she had left it to her precious grandchildren. I’ve looked into CHC - I need to read up on it and was wondering if anyone had any good resources to read as there is so much on line.
I’ve been told that if the care home could manage her she wouldn’t get CHC but they are bound to say that aren’t they. They certainly didn’t manage the palliative drugs as she died a horrible death, I don’t know what else went on as we were in lockdown for the last 6 months of her life.
I’m seriously unwell myself, a hysterectomy went wrong, I have 3 stoma bags. I want to make sure though my mother gets What she was entitled to, if of course that is possible.
Thank you