by
James83 » Mon Aug 27, 2018 6:59 pm
i can remember when my dad was still alive , my mum asked the guy who came to the house "" exactly what is the AA for "" , his reply was ANYTHING that helps providing care for your husband , making things easier for you or him .
she said so i can use that towards bills , electric gas , food , she was told yes that is exactly what it can help towards , as well as anything the council will not provide ..
after he passed away our local council at the time asked for dads AA payments to cover the costs of the equipment they provided us over the years as the social services department is not a charity . they increased our council tax and rent to make up the costs . and when the council guy showed up to remove the stair lift he should he would class it as "" removal of faulty item "" so we would avoid paying the new removal fees for large items , which for the stair lift would have been £ 250.
when mum started getting AA for her and i started getting carers allowance , we had a call to attend a housing officer at the local high school to talk about benefits and housing bills increasing now it was just 2 of us in the house.
the woman was wanting to hold the meeting in the main reception of the school and i told her if she insisted in doing so mum and i would simply get up and leave . we were taken through to a tiny meeting room .
and she went over benefits and what they do and do not cover , and she told mum AA is NOT to pay for clothes , food , bills , debt , electric , gas .. she then looked at me and said and what do you spend cares allowance on , told her that was my business and not something i had to disclose .
she then informed me , you better not be buying , clothes , help paying for rent , council tax , bills , ..
i asked what exactly is carers allowance for , and she refused to give a straight answer ....
some time after that we had someone from DWP contact us , and mum asked what was AA for , and the guy stated "" once we pay it you , it is yours to spend on what you wish or do as you wish as we dont ask for proof of purchase , or receipts , and apologised at how the local council housing officer spoke to us .