Anyone find that it is often the very old and frail who are the people who offer to help?
A few years ago, my Dad saw a lady struggling with getting her wheelchair bound caree onto a pavement(car parked over the lowered kerb), and Dad offered to help. He was most upset when they turned him down. He didn't realise, poor man, that he was so very frail, he looked as though a puff of wind would knock him down, and he wouldn't have been strong enough to help.
That has made me look at who helps and offers assistance, and it is usually the very young, or the very old. People of about 20-70 look the other way, on the whole.
A few years ago, my Dad saw a lady struggling with getting her wheelchair bound caree onto a pavement(car parked over the lowered kerb), and Dad offered to help. He was most upset when they turned him down. He didn't realise, poor man, that he was so very frail, he looked as though a puff of wind would knock him down, and he wouldn't have been strong enough to help.
That has made me look at who helps and offers assistance, and it is usually the very young, or the very old. People of about 20-70 look the other way, on the whole.
