During STANS last few months i was told time after time that i could not cope with his level of disability and care for the old doll at the same time, they said STAN had to have some respite care as i was myself ill and STAN had some bruises on his arm after fall in the bath however when he was in respite care social services said that i was not in a possition to care for STAN properly they informed me that STAN would remain in care untill we had in place a new commode , hoist , electric bath lift and a hospital bed which i could tilt and raise - lower .
We did not like the rest home STAN was in so you can imagine how the old doll and myself felt we had the feeling we had been conned into them at long last getting STAN into care i gave them a deadline of 14 days for all the equipment to be delivered when the deadline was up they said it could take about 6 months for the delivery that was it red flag to a bull comes into mind so i set about taking STAN home with or without permission we took him home on monday against social services advice who cares wins we knew STAN only had a few months to go, we got home monday all the equipment was delivered next day .
GEORGE====
What iam trying to say is that if you had the same social worker that STAN had would you be allowed to work as a carer ?
i would raher struggle at home than have family member in care home.
We did not like the rest home STAN was in so you can imagine how the old doll and myself felt we had the feeling we had been conned into them at long last getting STAN into care i gave them a deadline of 14 days for all the equipment to be delivered when the deadline was up they said it could take about 6 months for the delivery that was it red flag to a bull comes into mind so i set about taking STAN home with or without permission we took him home on monday against social services advice who cares wins we knew STAN only had a few months to go, we got home monday all the equipment was delivered next day .
GEORGE====
What iam trying to say is that if you had the same social worker that STAN had would you be allowed to work as a carer ?
i would raher struggle at home than have family member in care home.