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Carers UK Forum • Legally....
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Legally....

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:43 am
by Guest
....am I allowed to walk out of the door and dissapear if I leave my CA payment card behind?
Been thinking it might be for the best for everyone if I do.
Im not depressed, just being realistic.

If you're not depressed what

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:42 am
by Mrs M
If you're not depressed what on earth would lead you to this? How would things be better if you went?
Hope I can help.
Lisax

Are you sure you're not

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 9:51 am
by no1mum
Are you sure you're not depressed? You know we're here to help and support in any way we can.
Sending you big hugs.

Karen x x

Mairie, You may find that it

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:42 am
by Jankers
Mairie,

You may find that it is hard to disappear, often problems will follow of their own accord so what appears to be a good solution turns out differently.

We have a similar problem (i guess), in that we know that we shall have to put my Mother-in-law into a home, something my wife and sister in law have been trying to avoid for the last ten years.

No doubt when the day finally arrives we shall all feel very guilty about it, it seems to be the natural thing for carers, after all. you say you are not depressed, are you really certain?, from what i have seen of my wife she invariably returns from her 'stint' in a depressed mood, though often she would not recognise it herself.

As a 'newbie' here i am a little uncertain about offering advice, so i just hope this helps.

J.

Sorry for posting that, I

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:35 pm
by Guest
Sorry for posting that, I was just tired after a tough day. Thanks for your replies.
I would never walk away.
love mairie

Hi Mairie, Don't apologise, we all

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:37 pm
by no1mum
Hi Mairie,

Don't apologise, we all have days like that. Hugs to you. x x

Hi Mairie, Don't apologise, we all

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 6:11 pm
by Bluebird
Hi Mairie,

Don't apologise, we all have days like that. Hugs to you. x x
I second that Mairie, we are always here for you.
Bluebird xx

Thanks everyone. Am taking some

Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 2:27 am
by Guest
Thanks everyone.
Am taking some unpaid carers leave from work for a while now.it will help a lot. But i will miss the company. (and money).

Thanks everyone. Am taking some

Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 2:06 pm
by Bluebird
Thanks everyone.
Am taking some unpaid carers leave from work for a while now.it will help a lot. But i will miss the company. (and money).
I hope the leave helps. But don't forget, if you need company or just a little giggle, we are always here for you and we don't cost a thing Image .
Hugs,
Bluebird xx

we all get them days

Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 2:38 pm
by pixienubbins
we all get them days hun!

the time off should do u good, and we are always about for a natter!