My husband had someone round to assess his needs today. He told her that apart from a lady coming in the mornings to wash him no one else did anything. Hello, I do all the washing, cleaning, cooking, shopping, taxiing etc etc, in fact my life just revolves around him and his needs
his reply, I meant people who work, you are my just a wife, it's your job to look after me 24/7. So workers have rights, I don't, he's hijacked my life
I asked for a carers assessment last week. I got a reply this morning telling me there was a waiting list, but they would let me know as soon as they could to arrange a visit. Meanwhile, please do not hesitate to contact me. Hey lady I couldn't cope with him last week, I am even less able to cope with him this week, but as I'm his wife I will have to just get on with it! Carees can be rude, abusive, demanding, a wife it seems get no help or support, I'm told you married him its your job, get on with it.

