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Mon Nov 28, 2011 9:32 pm
But I need to vent before I explode.
I am fed up! Ive had it, ive had enough of people treating me like dirt.
Wind the clocks back a few months, I suspect my sister is having an affair (she is married with 2 kids), I have my reasons I only had to read facebook comments to realise it, she denies it, loverboy is on there as well, denies it but also tells me he loves my sister.
Sister leaves her kids with me for a week while she "sorts things out with her husband", she didnt, she spent the entire week with her new toyboy lover. Kids go back early after treating my wife like dirt when my back was turned (they know better than to mess me about).
She then goes to Kent on a works training course in a hotel, (Ive never known a works training course at a hotel take place on a weekend) at the same time loverboy goes on a camping holiday on his own in the new forest, in his photos is the exact same duvet cover as my sisters but how do you take a photo of yourself laying on the bed in the tent if you are on your own?
So then it all comes out in the open, she leaves her husband and a row between me and her ensues as im not happy my trusted and beloved sister has lied to me (its one thing I cannot stand) and she then tells me a secret that she has known for years, My dad is NOT my dad. Now ive blown a gasket, we had this arguement some years ago not long after we got back together as I was adopted aged 4 (very long story). So ive ordered a DNA kit, my sister, thinks im bluffing and tries to change her story that its not ME its HER whos dad is different (youve only got to look at the photos of the 3 of us to know he is our dad).
Its her birthday, I make damned sure I have her new address in time and get her a card in good time. My birthday comes, nothing no card no text no email.
A meesage of thanks to all my FREINDS on facebook resulted in a message from her saying "Obviously you didnt get the 2 cards I posted" no Happy Birthday message in that either. Monday has come and so has the post and still no card despite all the others getting here in time.
NOW they expect me to rock up at my dads on the 9th 10th and 11th to exchange xmas gifts that I havent even had time or money to go and get yet, not to mention I dont have the fuel money to travel 100 miles each way to do this, No questions of is it convenient for me etc just "This is what we are doing"
What my sister doesnt realise is that IF (and I hope I can) get up to my dads, I will be taking the DNA kit with me and insisting it be done as its put doubts in my mind and I want the bull**** to stop. All very well but I know my dad will hit the roof in a BIG way so im expecting trouble from that too. I dont care, Ive had enough! I lve my sister dearly but I hate who she is and the sort of person she is.
The Girl that lives above us, noisy isnt the word, laminate flooring and she cant walk through her flat withot sounding like a herd of elephants, mutual talks resulted in nothing so I went through the council, they spoke to her about it and she denies ever having spoken with me about noise issues, so the mandatory diaries are kept, she gets a letter after a visit from the noise officer, turns out she has carpetted the living room but still has laminate in the bedrooms, resulting in her being banned from allowing her children to play in the bedrooms due to the sheer amount of noise it produces, mediation calls us, I tell them things have quietened down and we dont need it, now the noise has started back up so mediation have been called and we have our first meeting on the 5th december.
Yesterday our new neighbours knock on the door to say hello and ask a few questions about the area, they then "warn" us that they like their music LOUD but if its too much then knock on their door?? WTF?? HAVE A BIT OF CONSIDERATION!
So today I think to hell with it, im going out, so I take my wife and daughter into town for a spot of window shopping to get some ideas for xmas gifts, we have a pram and the amount of people that just walked into us or the pram because WE were in the way drove me mad.
So now we are home, ive reached breaking point, im ready to explode.
6:30pm as per usual we put my 10 month old daughter to bed, low and behold bang bangbang from upstairs, now my duaghter wont sleep and is now in the living room in her bouncy chair in the hope that she will drop off.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH!!
I am fed up! Ive had it, ive had enough of people treating me like dirt.
Wind the clocks back a few months, I suspect my sister is having an affair (she is married with 2 kids), I have my reasons I only had to read facebook comments to realise it, she denies it, loverboy is on there as well, denies it but also tells me he loves my sister.
Sister leaves her kids with me for a week while she "sorts things out with her husband", she didnt, she spent the entire week with her new toyboy lover. Kids go back early after treating my wife like dirt when my back was turned (they know better than to mess me about).
She then goes to Kent on a works training course in a hotel, (Ive never known a works training course at a hotel take place on a weekend) at the same time loverboy goes on a camping holiday on his own in the new forest, in his photos is the exact same duvet cover as my sisters but how do you take a photo of yourself laying on the bed in the tent if you are on your own?
So then it all comes out in the open, she leaves her husband and a row between me and her ensues as im not happy my trusted and beloved sister has lied to me (its one thing I cannot stand) and she then tells me a secret that she has known for years, My dad is NOT my dad. Now ive blown a gasket, we had this arguement some years ago not long after we got back together as I was adopted aged 4 (very long story). So ive ordered a DNA kit, my sister, thinks im bluffing and tries to change her story that its not ME its HER whos dad is different (youve only got to look at the photos of the 3 of us to know he is our dad).
Its her birthday, I make damned sure I have her new address in time and get her a card in good time. My birthday comes, nothing no card no text no email.
A meesage of thanks to all my FREINDS on facebook resulted in a message from her saying "Obviously you didnt get the 2 cards I posted" no Happy Birthday message in that either. Monday has come and so has the post and still no card despite all the others getting here in time.
NOW they expect me to rock up at my dads on the 9th 10th and 11th to exchange xmas gifts that I havent even had time or money to go and get yet, not to mention I dont have the fuel money to travel 100 miles each way to do this, No questions of is it convenient for me etc just "This is what we are doing"
What my sister doesnt realise is that IF (and I hope I can) get up to my dads, I will be taking the DNA kit with me and insisting it be done as its put doubts in my mind and I want the bull**** to stop. All very well but I know my dad will hit the roof in a BIG way so im expecting trouble from that too. I dont care, Ive had enough! I lve my sister dearly but I hate who she is and the sort of person she is.
The Girl that lives above us, noisy isnt the word, laminate flooring and she cant walk through her flat withot sounding like a herd of elephants, mutual talks resulted in nothing so I went through the council, they spoke to her about it and she denies ever having spoken with me about noise issues, so the mandatory diaries are kept, she gets a letter after a visit from the noise officer, turns out she has carpetted the living room but still has laminate in the bedrooms, resulting in her being banned from allowing her children to play in the bedrooms due to the sheer amount of noise it produces, mediation calls us, I tell them things have quietened down and we dont need it, now the noise has started back up so mediation have been called and we have our first meeting on the 5th december.
Yesterday our new neighbours knock on the door to say hello and ask a few questions about the area, they then "warn" us that they like their music LOUD but if its too much then knock on their door?? WTF?? HAVE A BIT OF CONSIDERATION!
So today I think to hell with it, im going out, so I take my wife and daughter into town for a spot of window shopping to get some ideas for xmas gifts, we have a pram and the amount of people that just walked into us or the pram because WE were in the way drove me mad.
So now we are home, ive reached breaking point, im ready to explode.
6:30pm as per usual we put my 10 month old daughter to bed, low and behold bang bangbang from upstairs, now my duaghter wont sleep and is now in the living room in her bouncy chair in the hope that she will drop off.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH!!
