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Will basically sum up me and my situation before I go into what my dilemma is...
I'm 17 and a carer for my husband who suffers with schizophrenia and a personality disorder.
I met him when I had just turned 16, and we instantly hit it off, I gave up my studies to care for him, and 3 months later he had proposed. Me and him have got along up til now perfectly fine. We decided to try for a baby a couple of months before the wedding, and I made sure I talked to him, and he talked to me and his drs over and over to make sure it was what he wanted.
So here we are now, 4 months after the wedding, and I'm now 7 months pregnant, and not 18 until a month after the baby is born.
September we decided to move to Cornwall since this is where he lived before he met me, his family live there, and his favourite psychiatrists and CPNs.
We have been living there for a month now, and he thought it would be a nice suprise for me to book me tickets to go see my mum for a couple of days. He was seeming better than he ever has been, otherwise I wouldn't have risked leaving him.
On the train station saying goodbye he was very loving, saying how much he will miss me.
And he kept texting me, saying he loves me and hopes I am having a good time.
Then out of the blue, 2 days before I was meant to be coming home, I get a message on facebook from him saying he is much happier without me, and he thinks we should go our seperate ways.
I phoned him up for a proper chat, and he is seeming like a completely different person, he sounded really chirpy but got quite angry when I asked about living arrangements.
He asked me to stay at my mums until next Teusday because he can't handle seeing me, and said I need to find a place to live by then because I will not be welcome to stay in our house. He seems really angry at me, it's like he changed overnight.
He is seeing the psychiatrist tomorrow, he told me he is feeling so stressed by me at the moment he wants to hospitalise himself.
This is a huge change in him, so I don't know if it is something that will sort itself in a few weeks and he will want me back. But until then I have to make plans for what I'm going to if he doesn't change his mind.
I'm not able to rent a house ready for when the baby comes, because I'm not 18 yet. I can't work either, being pregnant and 17. So I will have to become homeless and speak to the local council to see if they will give me a bedsit until I'm 18 and can get a house for me and the baby. I can't really move back in with my parents because I want to have a home setup for me and baby, plus I don't have any money to move my things up, because we spent our savings moving to Cornwall.
I'm really stressed, and worried about him because he has never seemed this angry at me before.
Is there anything available for me? Any organisations who can give me advice and support??
I haven't got an education, am expecting a baby, don't have anywhere to live or any money and looking forward to a divorce.
Any advice, information would be greatly appreciated, I'm feeling stressed and alone.
Sam
Will basically sum up me and my situation before I go into what my dilemma is...
I'm 17 and a carer for my husband who suffers with schizophrenia and a personality disorder.
I met him when I had just turned 16, and we instantly hit it off, I gave up my studies to care for him, and 3 months later he had proposed. Me and him have got along up til now perfectly fine. We decided to try for a baby a couple of months before the wedding, and I made sure I talked to him, and he talked to me and his drs over and over to make sure it was what he wanted.
So here we are now, 4 months after the wedding, and I'm now 7 months pregnant, and not 18 until a month after the baby is born.
September we decided to move to Cornwall since this is where he lived before he met me, his family live there, and his favourite psychiatrists and CPNs.
We have been living there for a month now, and he thought it would be a nice suprise for me to book me tickets to go see my mum for a couple of days. He was seeming better than he ever has been, otherwise I wouldn't have risked leaving him.
On the train station saying goodbye he was very loving, saying how much he will miss me.
And he kept texting me, saying he loves me and hopes I am having a good time.
Then out of the blue, 2 days before I was meant to be coming home, I get a message on facebook from him saying he is much happier without me, and he thinks we should go our seperate ways.
I phoned him up for a proper chat, and he is seeming like a completely different person, he sounded really chirpy but got quite angry when I asked about living arrangements.
He asked me to stay at my mums until next Teusday because he can't handle seeing me, and said I need to find a place to live by then because I will not be welcome to stay in our house. He seems really angry at me, it's like he changed overnight.
He is seeing the psychiatrist tomorrow, he told me he is feeling so stressed by me at the moment he wants to hospitalise himself.
This is a huge change in him, so I don't know if it is something that will sort itself in a few weeks and he will want me back. But until then I have to make plans for what I'm going to if he doesn't change his mind.
I'm not able to rent a house ready for when the baby comes, because I'm not 18 yet. I can't work either, being pregnant and 17. So I will have to become homeless and speak to the local council to see if they will give me a bedsit until I'm 18 and can get a house for me and the baby. I can't really move back in with my parents because I want to have a home setup for me and baby, plus I don't have any money to move my things up, because we spent our savings moving to Cornwall.
I'm really stressed, and worried about him because he has never seemed this angry at me before.
Is there anything available for me? Any organisations who can give me advice and support??
I haven't got an education, am expecting a baby, don't have anywhere to live or any money and looking forward to a divorce.

Any advice, information would be greatly appreciated, I'm feeling stressed and alone.
Sam