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notice to quit private rented accomodation

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Hello all, well what was delivered under my flat door was a notice to quit i have only been in this flat 5 minutes the 15 may now when my lease is up and due to my landladys divorce and sell of the big house i will again have to find somewhere else to live.

i have been 550 pounds a month my landlady does not want me to leave and the future exhusband who has a tart wants the house sold the house will not sell even though it is beautiful it is a baronial manshion house with 7 or 8 turrets and my flat is on the end as an annexe.

3 bedrooms etx now move again but l will have to see a lawyer to fight for compensation ie if the wants to try and get me out quicker i do have a lease and some laws to protect me.

this is just one of the shietist situation and getting back to mum who is all alone in the 5 bedroom detached house in dundee i cannot stay they due to overlapping rules.

sheit sheit sheit every day there is not a day goes by in this carers existence where the law treats you like sheit to hell with you as carer.

carers life bills,sheit social work nemly dundee city council social would not give you cold water in winter most likley charge you for the privallege.

will fight this sheit husband and his tart for firstly treating fiend and my resident landlady with such contempt and sheit situation and emotional and mental abuse.

kenneth2dundeenowfife
Hang on, eight bedrooms and two people - have you considered downsizing, consolidating, or renting some of that spare space out to students? The two of you are sitting on a flipping gold mine in a university town, where typical rents for students in shared accommodation are £260+ a month.... you could emigrate to Cyprus or Australia, rent a nice seaside flat together and live on the rent soaking up the sunshine....

I'll swap with you any time.... until recently I had seven sharing four bedrooms living here....
well there seems to be a misinformation, just the same as people on pension l am the same as been on long term higher rate incapacity benefit.

I am not ALLOWED TO STAY IN MUMS HOUSE MY MUM IS TERMINAL WITH CANCER BUT THAT DOES NOT SEEM TO EFFECT THE LEGISLATION.

ALL IT SAY IS ANYBODY OVER 18 CANNOT STAY DOES NOT TAKE INTO ACCOUNT TERMINAL ILLNESS OR CARER STATUS.

I ALSO SUFFERED A HEART ATTACK IN JANUARY 08 ONLY 47 HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND.

DUE TO MY ILLNESS CANNOT NOW BE AT MUMS 24/7 AS I FEEL I SHOULD BE THERE.

THE DOCTORS ARE NOW SAYING TO ME THAT I COULD NOW BE EPELEPTIC DUE TO FATIGUE AND LETHARGY AND STRESS WORRYING ABOUT MUM TRYING TO THINK WHAT COULD I DO TO HELP MORE.

NO SLEEP DUE TO CHRONIC SLEEP APNEAO DRUGS MEDICATION ETC .

FEELING HELPLESS AND USELESS 2 3 4 5 6 IN THE MORNING NO SLEEP.............................

SURVIVE DAY BY DAY BY JUST DOSING 15 MINIUTES JUST SHUTTING MY EYES.

SO TIRED BUT FEEL JUST LIKE A ZOMBIE.................

SORRY EXCALIBUR THE STORY IS A LOT DEEP THAN YOU THINK MY MUM NURSED CANCER FOR 25 YEAR AS A SNEIOR MACMILLAN TYPE SISTER TOTAL NURSING LIFE 42 YEARS NOW
TERMINAL CANCER HERSELF.

IF I HAD TO TELL THE STORY LIKE MANY OTHERS I WOULD BE HERE FOR ETERNITY ON THE POSTING.

KENNETH2DUNDEENOWFIFE.
THE DOCTORS ARE NOW SAYING TO ME THAT I COULD NOW BE EPELEPTIC DUE TO FATIGUE AND LETHARGY AND STRESS WORRYING ABOUT MUM
I've never heard of E being caused by stress it's usually either already present or not! Image

Maybe it's a stress disorder that will improve with time? Image
Let's hope so! Epilepsy brings with it, so many other issues to cope with. Image

((hugs))
marie x
It sounds to me like you have many problems, and we all hope things get better for you in every way. What does your Mum feel about things? Do you have any other relatives who can help?
One of my sons has had a brain scan and one has had an EEG,(measuring brain activity), to see if they may have developed epilepsy, as it can apparently sometimes be brought on by illness. I worked with someone who developed epilepsy while she was pregnant(she was also diabetic), but never had another fit, after her early pregnancy.

Kenneth, I hope you have someone to talk to. Your Mum did a very difficult(emotional) job,and deserves to be looked after well, and should be able to see her son have some help to care for her. Do your Mum's old work colleagues have any support or advice for you?I hope so.

((hug))
Oh Daisy, Epilepsy does pop up apparently E specialists say lots of people have E and don't know unless something triggers it! Image
You are right, sometimes illness or infection which affects the brain causes it too and sometimes it's a side-effect of something else entirely (stroke!).

Some people only ever have 1 seizure and never need meds and others well, they struggle with very little control most of their lives. Image

A diagnosis of E is always difficult to cope with as the condition varies so much, it's not really clear how badly you will be affected. Image
Epilepsy is pretty unique to every person and seldom is the same too! Image

The only good thing is the advances in pin-pointing exactly what type of E, as different drugs help different types. Image
There's always hope of new drugs and procedures too.

(((Hugs)))
marie x