I'm sorry to hear he relapsed afterwardsCongratulations Hannah81Hi, I'm recently engaged! I am very excited to plan a wedding but my first thought is how am I going to arrange for my mum to be there all day. Mum has M.S and is in a wheelchair, she needs 2 people to hoist her to take her to the toilet. I would need all the equipment at the venue (not started looking yet) and is need someone to help her eat. I wondered if anyone else has organised their big day around the person they care for?![]()
I had no option but to do so, given that my (now) husband is also my caree.![]()
So... no reception, no going for drinks afterwards, no meal, no party. Just the legal bit at a very nice Town Hall, and photos in the grounds of it.
Even that exhausted him enough (he's got moderate to severe M.E.) that he relapsed for a fortnight afterwards.