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Tue Mar 15, 2011 1:55 pm
yup been told by matts brother that i am
amy is nothing to do with him, she isnt family and thats really hurt
yes ive had to go private, ive borrowed money, not a crisis loan or anything off a friend. and i iwll have to pay all the rent this month as nothing will be sorted in time, and then it should be about £400 a month to pay at the most apparantly.
but im a scrounger
im not getting any grants because i dont want the hand outs
all thats important is amy and cerys dont go with out anything they need.
i have never felt so bloody awful, me and matt said we will see how things go between us, if it works it does, if it doesnt it doesnt. but at least we know we did try and its not for the kids either its for us.
His borther doesnt like any one on benefits of any kind, its all hand outs and scrounging. I didnt feel bad at all until now
now i feel pathetic and almost dirty because if wot he has said. is it because me and matt are getting along ok? is it because im quite capable of just doing things and getting on with it all? dunno but im furious he has said amy isnt family and im seeing now why his wife had enough of him. when cerys goes to nursery i iwll go back to work, ok i know it will b part time but i'll go and do well at wot ever i do. And to top it off i think my mum and sister are also jumping on the "u r a scrounger" band wagon
yet i know some one who just got a very large grant for a holiday, her welfare oficer sorted it out, she dont take her kids to school so she got this woman sent to the house and now gets more than everything. when i know folks on here that just want half hour break it dont happen, otheres r getting huge hand outs.
am so god damn annoyed can not put it in words!
amy is nothing to do with him, she isnt family and thats really hurt
yes ive had to go private, ive borrowed money, not a crisis loan or anything off a friend. and i iwll have to pay all the rent this month as nothing will be sorted in time, and then it should be about £400 a month to pay at the most apparantly.
but im a scrounger
im not getting any grants because i dont want the hand outs
all thats important is amy and cerys dont go with out anything they need.
i have never felt so bloody awful, me and matt said we will see how things go between us, if it works it does, if it doesnt it doesnt. but at least we know we did try and its not for the kids either its for us.
His borther doesnt like any one on benefits of any kind, its all hand outs and scrounging. I didnt feel bad at all until now
now i feel pathetic and almost dirty because if wot he has said. is it because me and matt are getting along ok? is it because im quite capable of just doing things and getting on with it all? dunno but im furious he has said amy isnt family and im seeing now why his wife had enough of him. when cerys goes to nursery i iwll go back to work, ok i know it will b part time but i'll go and do well at wot ever i do. And to top it off i think my mum and sister are also jumping on the "u r a scrounger" band wagon
yet i know some one who just got a very large grant for a holiday, her welfare oficer sorted it out, she dont take her kids to school so she got this woman sent to the house and now gets more than everything. when i know folks on here that just want half hour break it dont happen, otheres r getting huge hand outs.
am so god damn annoyed can not put it in words!
