Well hes still in hospital. Still not been to see him.
Spoke on the phone yesterday and his attitude once again was off. Had a go that I hadn't been to see him and "surely wife must be better by now" (as if he knows anything!) and "surely you must be able to sort something out" (i.e. get someone else to drop everything to help out). Told him straight to cut it out.
So he says "well text your brother and tell him to visit - its urgent". Thats the problem his idea is that everything he wants is urgent. Hes saying hes had enough in hospital now its boring - this is the same fella whos been trying for months to get into hospital with GP visits, ambulances etc. Its unbelievable!
Good news is wife is a bit better. MIL is here this week to help. Im in work again today. I " could" go and see him today. Would mean going straight from train to hospital, not seeing my youngest tonight, meaning pretty much a 16 hour day for me just leaving home now 630am). Trouble is Im shattered at the moment to be honest both physically and mentally....
I've told my wife I'll go tomorrow. Shes not entirely in agreement and thinks I should tell him no. To be honest, I can see her point with his demanding etc. But what do I do?