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Phew, relief indeed!

And in a way, having your parents present was good - now the SW etc can see just how 'unreliable' all their 'testimony' is. It's pretty clear they are not 'compos mentes' in any way, and they can probably also see how manipulative your dad is to his poor wife.

Let's hope everyone now backs off and leaves you, and your sister and parents, in peace, and your parents can go on living in their nice self-paying care home and be as happy as possible!

Hope you're all set for a Happy Christmas now! :)