Hi,
Thank you for all the advice in the past, so yet again I am back for some helpful tips and guidance.
My wife, a survivor of abuse, about a year ago became actively suicidal due to a variety of factors, which can be seen on another one of my posts. I therefore had to take time out from training to be a teacher to care for her and our 2 young girls. She had intensive support put in, meds changed and added. And it helped. She became better at managing her emotions and I could guide her through the hard times with support of the various professionals.
So I am meant to be returning to my course in January, and oh so helpfully nearly all professionals, because of funding/she is doing better have decided to withdraw services now or next month or so. So I am massively stressed about going back, both personally from being able to do the course again/what it will bring back but also how she is going to cope. And she is on the edge of a dip again, as she is feeling isolated, as her support network will again be only me (when I'm not at school). The friends she has are needy, so she says she's having a bad day wanting someone to talk things through with and they come back with oh really, so am I this has happened to me. Not what she needs.
So she is on the edge of a massive dip again, which I am doing my best to prevent. But I am left in a position being either going back and things might be fine or might go massively wrong or I don't return this year, take another year out and being tight financially. What do I do?
Thank you for all the advice in the past, so yet again I am back for some helpful tips and guidance.
My wife, a survivor of abuse, about a year ago became actively suicidal due to a variety of factors, which can be seen on another one of my posts. I therefore had to take time out from training to be a teacher to care for her and our 2 young girls. She had intensive support put in, meds changed and added. And it helped. She became better at managing her emotions and I could guide her through the hard times with support of the various professionals.
So I am meant to be returning to my course in January, and oh so helpfully nearly all professionals, because of funding/she is doing better have decided to withdraw services now or next month or so. So I am massively stressed about going back, both personally from being able to do the course again/what it will bring back but also how she is going to cope. And she is on the edge of a dip again, as she is feeling isolated, as her support network will again be only me (when I'm not at school). The friends she has are needy, so she says she's having a bad day wanting someone to talk things through with and they come back with oh really, so am I this has happened to me. Not what she needs.
So she is on the edge of a massive dip again, which I am doing my best to prevent. But I am left in a position being either going back and things might be fine or might go massively wrong or I don't return this year, take another year out and being tight financially. What do I do?