Hi - haven't been on for a while but I wondered if anyone could point me in the right direction please.
We have a daughter with learning difficulties (in her twenties) who lives at home. She gets her DLA and Incapacity Benefit but would like a little job really and lately keeps on about getting her own place. Obviously we would love this too but it may be some time off because she HATES being alone and she would need lots of help.
Anyway, just recently a weeny little place VERY close to our house came on the market and I wondered whether it might be worth doing some sums etc. I knew someone a few years ago in a similar position (but we've lost touch) and they managed to buy a small house which they rented out for several years until she was able to live alone. I seem to remember they didn't put it in daughter's name because she would have lost all her benefits etc.
Now, I am basically an honest person so I don't want to "cheat" as it were. However, when I look back over her life I have had to FIGHT for every single thing and, as everyone on here will understand, it is absolutely draining.
Ed Psychs, Teachers, GPS, Nurses, benefits, college courses, funding, appeals etc and now Job Centres and various agencies trying to get help finding her a little job.
We paid off our mortgage about a year ago so we do have some spare cash for the first time in our lives!!
Where shall I start looking? I just don't know what direction to go in really - although I'm sure I can't be the first to be considering this.
I would LOVE her to have a little job, her own place and no financial worries when we're no longer around. Thanks in advance.
We have a daughter with learning difficulties (in her twenties) who lives at home. She gets her DLA and Incapacity Benefit but would like a little job really and lately keeps on about getting her own place. Obviously we would love this too but it may be some time off because she HATES being alone and she would need lots of help.
Anyway, just recently a weeny little place VERY close to our house came on the market and I wondered whether it might be worth doing some sums etc. I knew someone a few years ago in a similar position (but we've lost touch) and they managed to buy a small house which they rented out for several years until she was able to live alone. I seem to remember they didn't put it in daughter's name because she would have lost all her benefits etc.
Now, I am basically an honest person so I don't want to "cheat" as it were. However, when I look back over her life I have had to FIGHT for every single thing and, as everyone on here will understand, it is absolutely draining.

We paid off our mortgage about a year ago so we do have some spare cash for the first time in our lives!!

Where shall I start looking? I just don't know what direction to go in really - although I'm sure I can't be the first to be considering this.
I would LOVE her to have a little job, her own place and no financial worries when we're no longer around. Thanks in advance.