My husband went for a hip op today, when we went in yesterday all the staff were most understanding of my need to be there and happy for me to stay. I left on the understanding i was to be there before he went to theatre. Change of staff and now have two or three staff who seem determined that i should not be there. I asked them for advice on how to manage moving him when we get him and dos and donts and was abruptly told he will be able to do himself. This group of staff clearly do not consider my role as full time carer and are trying to withold info from me.
My husband does not always follow what people are saying to him and have had issues in the past. I am most concerned that i will not be allowed in tommorow until visiting times and will therefore not be aware of what is being done/said etc and my husband will get mixed up with what is being done.
Is there any advice on how to manage this situation?
My husband does not always follow what people are saying to him and have had issues in the past. I am most concerned that i will not be allowed in tommorow until visiting times and will therefore not be aware of what is being done/said etc and my husband will get mixed up with what is being done.
Is there any advice on how to manage this situation?