My mother's carer is a bully, and worst still he's her son and my brother, he took the role on about ten years ago as a way to get the DSS to stop harassing him about finding work, his idea of caring is to call round in the evening to raid my mums fridge and take control of the TV, other family members have tried to apply for the carers job but unbelievably unless my brother agrees to this on a form he is sent there is nothing we can do, by the way this form also needs my mums signature but he just waits until he can get her on her own then intimidates her to sign, i cannot believe the stupidity of this situation, it’s like an abused wife seeking divorce and the husband getting the divorce papers that his wife must sign in his presence before the law will grant her wishes, I need advice urgently as my mums condition has worsened in the last couple of months after suffering five strokes, she is now totally bedridden and needs constant care, please help!!