Hello,I am a full time carer for my Poorly husband, who has terminal cancer of prostate bones and lung, also severely sighted in both eyes & deaf & suffers from osteoarthritis in hips and knees. He has carers in twice a day as I have health issues my self with anxiety & osteoarthritis in hips and knees & hands.We get 7 and a half hours care,then twice a week 4 hours to help get my husband out in the community. But I am fearful they the social services will take this care away.My Husband is 71 & I am 62.I am utterly exhausted as well.I have a failed hip replacement owing to no one caring for me!! The social services simply don't believe me.!! I have not had a proper break away,I realize that there are other people who are worse off.So sorry to moan.!! My Hubby is not bed bound thank goodness.His treatment is working.He doesn't want to go into respite as we are a team,so we just have to focus on days out and meals out with friends,when we can.i simply dread Hubbys next review.I have a pa who help us once a week,& in the holidays when our community support worker is on holiday,but social services,Have said that they will not pay for her.! So what are we allowed to spend direct payments on? My hubby has no savings.He has worked all his life.regards Amanda h
Hi Amanda ... others will be along to help with the Direct Payments problem.
I have no direct experience of them as my caring days ended before they were introduced.
One of your last postings.
CHC / NHS Continiung Healthcare was recommended ... have you explored this possibility ?
Main thread :
https://www.carersuk.org/forum/support- ... read-35998
Section ... colour coded to make it easier to find :
FAST TRACK NHS CONTINUING HEALTHCARE ( NOT JUST FOR END OF LIFE ! )
That could well be the answer to almost all your problems.