Advice needed please- I want to help mother care for father
Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:35 pm
I'm new to this and just starting to look into a possibility.
I work appx 20 hours a week at present, self employed, mainly from home as an ebay trader/market trader and I am in receipt of working tax and child tax credits as I am a single parent looking after my 11 years old son.
My mother is 79 and looking after my 83 years old father who can just about walk and needs full time care. He is often ungrateful and can be aggressive towards her. She really is feeling the strain and hasn't much of a life when, at her age, she should be taking it easy herself. My father gets attendence allowance by the way.
I really want to help my mother and we have talked about the possibility of me becoming a carer for my father part of the time, as I obviously wouldn't be able to look after him throughout the night and a lot of time during the day. 18 to 20 hours a week of help from me would give my mum a big boost.
I would love to help, but obviously need a small wage to live. My mother is willing to pay me and I am willing to pack in my present work to become a part time carer if I can remain on working tax credits to boost my income. At present, I earn very little, so I wouldn't be losing out financially if it is legally possible to go through with this idea. Excuse my ignorance, as I know nothing about all this, but is being a part time carer classed as paid employment, like any other employment? If it is classed as a form of employment for Working Tax Credit puposes, then great- I can become a part time carer for my father. Also, can I work for less than the minimum wage as my mum wouldn't be able to pay me much for my part-time help.
Hope to get some useful info from members.
Have a great day everyone!