Mum seems content at the home, she was placed there by the NHS after being in hospital for a few weeks, she does always tell me she wants to come home with me. To be fair, I have no complaints about the home, at least until this individual showed up in late December and started throwing his weight around.
The last contact was a text he sent me Thursday evening saying he had posted a letter by hand through my front door and asking me to call him, the post was simply a copy of the invoice for over £36,500 asking for payment up front until November, the terms state it has to be paid within seven days - not going to happen.
I need to remember theses quotes for when I do have to speak to him, "Financial Abuse of a Vulnerable Person" , is it also Discrimination against the elderly? Not to mention the fear and harassment he is causing me.
It so happens one of my taxi drivers who takes me back and forth is a lovely lady with over forty years experience in care homes and eventually palliative care before a drastic career change into the taxi business, her exact words when I said about him coming to my house demanding money echoed all your own "I've never heard of a nursing home manager acting like that in my entire life, that is disgusting".
It's just so nice to not feel alone and isolated as this bully obviously thinks I am and will get away with whatever he wants.
Thank you all:-)