Thanks for your input everyone.
Melly, I've read as much as I can, at first I really thought it was down to the meds, but the Neurologist said a definate no. Maybe they are stress and sleep related, I just can't seem to put my finger on a definate answer.
Crocus, the headache attacked again yesterday, Hubs slept the afternoon away, woke up, had an absence and went to bed.
Still no definite diagnosis yet, (2 years down the line
) Hubs is supposed to be seeing Neuro again in September but no appointment has come through yet, ( might just give them a phone today) last time he upped the dosage just to see if it makes a difference.
Has medication helped reduce the number of seizures for your Hubby?
And did your OH begin small and work his way up? Hubs began as just a stare into space, we thought he just had 'selective deafness' at first!
Marie, your OH's seizures sound quite scary, at least mine just stays put, the only thing we have to watch out for is a right hook when we wake him
The kids are great and help me out, we cope o.k. We have no other professional help apart from visits to Neurology, perhaps when a diagnosis is actually given we will have access to an Epilepsy Nurse (if that's the case) for advice and support.
Thanks for your help everyone, I know it's not a nice thing to deal with, but it's good to know I'm not alone