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Re: I suspect this person has BPD - how to cut contact?

Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2021 7:30 pm
by Melly1
Personally I’d tell him otherwise he will keep trying to contact you and harbour hope you might get back together. Just be strong and end the communication before he has a chance to try and emotionally blackmail you.

Melly1

Re: I suspect this person has BPD - how to cut contact?

Posted: Mon Jun 07, 2021 1:34 am
by Helen_2106
It’s done. Thanks for your advice. I just pointed out to him that the situation isn’t making either of us happy. If it was this much hard work before we even met then I guess it would be a lot worse in person.

I feel relieved. It’s really unpleasant walking on eggshells when someone perceives everything as a slight to them and you literally can’t win. I hope he gets some sort of help. A previous poster is right though - we are all indeed responsible for our own happiness.