my grandmother was discharged today to be sent home to let nature takes it couse, she has no idea, she is that unwell. my mother and her sister and brother have decided not to tell her.
she is 91 years old this sunday 15th july and she is of full mind, better memory than me.
we are all taking it in turns to care for her, its hard for me as i have had to get someone to help hubby as hes also disabled. what i want to ask, if my nan asks me should i tell her the truth, i would hate to have to lie. its a sad time and i would really love to say good bye and let her be allowed to have the same dignity to also say good bye. hospital says she will be pain free. any help would be appreciated.
thankyou, i am new here today.
-x- bonnie me o my
she is 91 years old this sunday 15th july and she is of full mind, better memory than me.
we are all taking it in turns to care for her, its hard for me as i have had to get someone to help hubby as hes also disabled. what i want to ask, if my nan asks me should i tell her the truth, i would hate to have to lie. its a sad time and i would really love to say good bye and let her be allowed to have the same dignity to also say good bye. hospital says she will be pain free. any help would be appreciated.
thankyou, i am new here today.
-x- bonnie me o my