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Re: Possible end of line

Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2018 11:10 am
by Henrietta
Hi Littlebowpeep,
I am sorry that you are feeling sad over latest developments but it does sound as though he has saved you from making hte inevitable decision. You can find happiness again and will look back wondering why you put up with all his selfish nonsense for so long.

Re: Possible end of line

Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2018 8:30 pm
by Jane_1609
Littlebowpeep wrote:
Wed Sep 19, 2018 5:36 pm
Well he has made it official,he has decided to finish our 25years of commitment,love and friendship which we had in our marriage!!

I am so shocked,that he has decided what he wants after just 1 1/2 weeks of being appart!!
I feel that he had already worked out what he wanted and was just waiting for me to say to him to leave,then he can tell he's family and friends that it was my decision!!!
I also feel that there is another women involved,not sexually,but someone who has influenced his decision,who is also going through a divorce.But of course l haven't got anything to prove this!!
I will probably never know,but it won't change his decision!! :(
Hi
Just wondering what has happened since you last posted?
Jane

Re: Possible end of line

Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2018 9:49 am
by bowlingbun
Remember that this is a site for former carers, as well as current carers.
There are many of us here bearing the scars of caring which may get better, but never heal entirely.
We can never turn ourselves back to the person we once were, only discover a "new normal". All I want from life now is to be able to live quietly, in peace.

Re: Possible end of line

Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2018 5:36 pm
by Jane_1609
bowlingbun wrote:
Mon Dec 03, 2018 9:49 am
Remember that this is a site for former carers, as well as current carers.
There are many of us here bearing the scars of caring which may get better, but never heal entirely.
We can never turn ourselves back to the person we once were, only discover a "new normal". All I want from life now is to be able to live quietly, in peace.
Hello bowling bun

I found that what is helpful to me is accepting that "this is the way life is right now", rather than thinking "this isn't the way life was meant to be". It has helped me find peace, navigating each day. I hope you find quiet and peace. xx